About

On the topic of me…

Hey, I’m Tamara, aspiring author, blogger and tea drinker (it’s becoming an issue I’m not prepared to fix)

More importantly I’m a feminist, I’m a woman believing in the equality of all women.

Let’s take control of our lives and show up unapologetically as we are.

Spilling tea with Tamara is a female empowerment and wellness blog. But all are welcome!! I want this blog to help you navigate life in a world that slows down for no-one! I offer unsolicited advice on stepping into your power and living a life true to you. Taking on the topics of feminism, body image, anxiety, empowerment & self-care habits and rituals. Hopefully breaking down some stigma as I go.

Why should you choose vintage?

Purchasing vintage clothing offers numerous advantages, including those that are beneficial to your wallet and bank account!  We’ve outlined why you should buy vintage clothing whenever you have the opportunity, and why it’s the best bang for your buck!

The top that lasts one wash

But the trouble with wanting something new, instead of reusing and cherishing what we have, is making us culprits of fast fashion. We’re letting ourselves be targets of the toxic industry. When clothes are extremely cheap it is hard to think of the reasons why that garment or item shouldn’t be purchased. It encourages us as consumers to not think too much about necessity or need. It is an extremely hard habit to overcome, browsing an online clothing store is a fun pastime, especially when things can be so inexpensive and on trend.

Independence in a relationship

How do I keep my independence in a relationship? It’s easy to fall into the ‘I want to please my partner’ bubble, but this can become a runaway train and then suddenly, you’re lost wondering how the hell you got here! You have to be in a good relationship with yourself first and then in […]